A question for pro-lifers...?

AS you are not having sex, no child can result from it, and thus no loss of life. I am semi-pro-life. I would not tell a woman who was raped, had a child that would suffer, or stand a chance of dying herself that she should not get one. No rule is exempt from exceptions, and abortion, to me is no different. Contraceptive IMO is acceptable, as most of it prevents fertilization in the first place if used correctly. Thus, if you can no see yourself not having sex , and do not want children, then this is the best method to prevent them, and having to make a very hard choice latter. This is just my own views on it, and I agree to disagree on the subject.